Forget about having more power over others. Focus on having more patience with ourselves.
Beneath the surface, patience is actually more powerful than power. While power is more about outgunning or outdoing someone else, patience is all about outdoing ourselves. No use outgunning someone if you can't outlast them.
With power you can only outgun others but not outlast them. With patience you can outdo yourself and as a by product, outlast others too but that is really not that important. The important thing is having patience with ourselves above all else.